Hey, Love!
Let’s have a moment of honesty—are you spending too much time trying to figure out every little step of how your dreams are going to happen? It’s okay, friend, we’ve all been there. You’ve gotten clear on what you want, and now it feels like your job is to control every twist and turn to make it show up. But here’s the truth: that’s not your job.
When you’re busy obsessing over the “how,” you’re actually blocking the Universe from working its magic. Think of it this way—if you’re micromanaging every detail, you’re essentially telling the Universe, “I don’t trust you to handle this.” And we don’t want that, do we?
Why Letting Go Matters
Imagine you’re hosting a potluck dinner, and you’ve invited all your friends to bring something amazing. But instead of trusting them to show up with their signature dishes, you spend the entire time texting them, checking in, and giving directions on what they should bring and how to make it. Exhausting, right?
That’s what micromanaging the Universe feels like. It’s exhausting, unnecessary, and most importantly, it’s limiting. The Universe has resources, creativity, and connections that you couldn’t even imagine. Your job is to focus on what you want—not how it’ll show up.
Step 1: Trust the Bigger Picture
When you’re clear about your desires and you’ve taken that first aligned step, remind yourself that the Universe is working behind the scenes. You don’t need to know how the pieces will come together—you just need to trust that they will.
This isn’t about blind faith; it’s about understanding that your clarity and actions are enough to set things in motion. The Universe is always moving things in your favor, friend, even when you can’t see it yet.
Step 2: Relax and Refocus
The next time you catch yourself spiraling into “how mode,” take a breath and ask yourself this: What can I focus on today that feels good and aligned with my dreams?
Maybe it’s spending time journaling, going for a walk to clear your head, or reconnecting with the joy of your vision. When you shift your focus from control to flow, you allow the Universe to step in and do its part.
Step 3: Celebrate the Small Signs
The Universe loves to send little signals that it’s working on your behalf—maybe it’s a random compliment that lights you up, a serendipitous meeting, or an opportunity you weren’t expecting. When you notice these signs, celebrate them. It’s the Universe’s way of saying, “I’ve got you, friend.”
You don’t have to figure out every step. You don’t have to plan the perfect path. You just have to be clear about where you’re going, take inspired action, and trust that the Universe will handle the rest. So, friend, let’s stop micromanaging the magic and let things unfold in the way they’re meant to.
Your Mini-Challenge This Week:
Every time you catch yourself trying to control the “how,” pause, breathe, and say, “I trust that everything is unfolding perfectly for me.” Then shift your focus to something that feels light and joyful.
Be well,
La Shell
P.S. The Universe has bigger and better plans than you could ever dream up. Let it surprise you. 💫